No not really.
I am sure you noticed...this is not a BDSM site; but here are two he is a member at: Fetlife & Informed Consent...I'm sure they would love new members such as you.
As to Cookie mentioning you, he said your name twice in two years...doesn't sound obsessive to me, but you on the other hand; starting a thread, even going as far as to tell him when and where you will be in Canada...that sounds like you are obsessed with him, not the other way around.
Pot meet Kettle.
Let me tell everybody a little story. Once upon a time there was a dyslexic gimp who could not spell called Looney (Cookie Monster). He was very sad and lonely and had no friends. He tried everything but still no one cared about him or wanted to love him. So he decided that to get attention he would join the bdsm communities and then offer himself to any misstress who would have him for free.
He told them that they could spank him, torture him, crossdress him, piss and take a dump on him and even jump on his head. After all of that, he is still the same sad and lonely dyslexic gimp. The moral of the story is that Gooney is pathetic.
It is so funny to see those who take a dump on him and jump on his head coming out to defend their property. He cannot even stand up for himself. BWaaahahaha. Gooney you are even worse than I had thought.
P,S, Gooney - I will be wearing a chastity belt with lock all next week in case you try to kidnap me while I am in the UK. I will never tell you where the key is hidden. I still have your e-mail where you said that you were going to take me to my room and rape me until I beg to be your sex slave. Keep dreaming. You must mean your rubberdoll because it will never happen with me, Booney.