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A friend of mine..
« on: November 28, 2017, 06:32:32 AM »

..has been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years.

Due to their work schedule they get to see each other not that often but they have clearly made it work for the past 2 years.

They live separately.

The guy has a friend, who is a woman, and they socialise in the same group of friends, they have been friends for about 5 years.

Prior to my friend getting involved with this guy...the guy and this woman friend shared a kiss. He said it never meant nothing and it was like kissing his sister.

Recently this woman broke up with her boyfriend and turned to my friends guy asking if she could stay with him until she worked her shit out.

( bare in my mind she has a vacant house up for sale and she doesn't want to move into it )

My question is:

Is it unreasonable for my friend to feel threatened by this woman moving in with her guy?

When:

1. They shared a kiss in the past..which indicates an attraction in the first place.

2. My friend and her guy don't see each other that often to seal the intimacy deal on a regular basis.

3. This woman has a vacant house up for sale, that she could move into, instead of moving in with my friends guy.

4. There is no time frame set on how long this woman is going to stay at my friends guys place.


Thoughts?

Personally, I think it looks like a midnight recipe for morning regrets..
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #1 on: November 28, 2017, 07:09:56 AM »

..has been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years.

Due to their work schedule they get to see each other not that often but they have clearly made it work for the past 2 years.

They live separately.

The guy has a friend, who is a woman, and they socialise in the same group of friends, they have been friends for about 5 years.

Prior to my friend getting involved with this guy...the guy and this woman friend shared a kiss. He said it never meant nothing and it was like kissing his sister.

Recently this woman broke up with her boyfriend and turned to my friends guy asking if she could stay with him until she worked her shit out.

( bare in my mind she has a vacant house up for sale and she doesn't want to move into it )

My question is:

Is it unreasonable for my friend to feel threatened by this woman moving in with her guy?

When:

1. They shared a kiss in the past..which indicates an attraction in the first place.

2. My friend and her guy don't see each other that often to seal the intimacy deal on a regular basis.

3. This woman has a vacant house up for sale, that she could move into, instead of moving in with my friends guy.

4. There is no time frame set on how long this woman is going to stay at my friends guys place.


Thoughts?

Personally, I think it looks like a midnight recipe for morning regrets..

If he lets the woman move in with him, your friend should stop seeing him and look for new opportunities right away.  Cut all ambiguity right out. No hesitation.
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #2 on: November 28, 2017, 07:16:34 AM »

..has been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years.

Due to their work schedule they get to see each other not that often but they have clearly made it work for the past 2 years.

They live separately.

The guy has a friend, who is a woman, and they socialise in the same group of friends, they have been friends for about 5 years.

Prior to my friend getting involved with this guy...the guy and this woman friend shared a kiss. He said it never meant nothing and it was like kissing his sister.

Recently this woman broke up with her boyfriend and turned to my friends guy asking if she could stay with him until she worked her shit out.

( bare in my mind she has a vacant house up for sale and she doesn't want to move into it )

My question is:

Is it unreasonable for my friend to feel threatened by this woman moving in with her guy?

When:

1. They shared a kiss in the past..which indicates an attraction in the first place.

2. My friend and her guy don't see each other that often to seal the intimacy deal on a regular basis.

3. This woman has a vacant house up for sale, that she could move into, instead of moving in with my friends guy.

4. There is no time frame set on how long this woman is going to stay at my friends guys place.


Thoughts?

Personally, I think it looks like a midnight recipe for morning regrets..

Depends on how much he loves your friend and what his idea of friend code is.

Has she got her property up for sale or under a current lease?
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #3 on: November 28, 2017, 08:31:25 AM »

If he lets the woman move in with him, your friend should stop seeing him and look for new opportunities right away.  Cut all ambiguity right out. No hesitation.

That was my initial thought as well..

However, my friend doesn't want to come across as overreacting and wants to give the situation the benefit of the doubt..

When you read the initial post..what was your gut instinct?...Meaning do you think that with this woman moving in with my friends guy, could be inviting something to happen to between them?


Depends on how much he loves your friend and what his idea of friend code is.

They've been together for 2years..and he dropped the "L" word ( I love you ) when his dad died and she was there for support. My friend never said it back..and figured he only said it cause he was in a vulnerable state with his dad passing away.

He's the type of guy who will leave his key in the letterbox for any one of his mates who needs a place to stay.

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Has she got her property up for sale or under a current lease?

It's vacant and up for sale.
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #4 on: November 28, 2017, 11:36:48 AM »

That was my initial thought as well..

However, my friend doesn't want to come across as overreacting and wants to give the situation the benefit of the doubt..

When you read the initial post..what was your gut instinct?...Meaning do you think that with this woman moving in with my friends guy, could be inviting something to happen to between them?


They've been together for 2years..and he dropped the "L" word ( I love you ) when his dad died and she was there for support. My friend never said it back..and figured he only said it cause he was in a vulnerable state with his dad passing away.

He's the type of guy who will leave his key in the letterbox for any one of his mates who needs a place to stay.

It's vacant and up for sale.

Well, your friend seems lukewarm on him, so it remains with her and what she wants with him. Exclusive relationship?  No women moving in, or she goes elsewhere. Doesn’t want exclusive relationship?  Don’t make any demands either way.  It’s his thing. 

My whole thing is it doesn’t matter IF something happens, but that the door is open for that at his house. 
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #5 on: November 28, 2017, 09:11:11 PM »

Or just have a big orgy and video the hole thing.  :rotf:
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #6 on: November 29, 2017, 03:44:19 AM »

LOL!


They have an exclusive relationship. They just don't get to see each other as much as they would like, due to work commitments.

I think it is possible for two people of the opposite sex to be friends, IF both people are in relationships with other people.

If both are single, or if one is single and the other is in a relationship...things could happen unintentionally..
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #7 on: November 29, 2017, 05:47:05 AM »

Relationships should be built on trust....so I'd lean towards trusting him unless there is something he's done before which broke or harmed that trust.

Making an issue out of his kindness (and from what you've said, he's a kind person), could backfire on your friend. I get her uneasyness about it though... don't blame her for feeling how she does.
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #8 on: December 02, 2017, 08:40:11 AM »

Update..

My friend confronted her boyfriend and it turns out he's a typical male that doesn't think things through before doing it.

He apologised for not having the discussion with my friend about this female moving in with him, as it should of been a joint discussion and decision.

He apologised for not being more aware of how this would effect my friend and their relationship.

He has given his friend a time frame with moving out and getting her own place.

Wether all this actually takes place or not is yet to be seen.






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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #9 on: December 02, 2017, 10:04:34 AM »

So he backed down because she had issues of trust with him or men in general? He's almost too kind.
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #10 on: December 02, 2017, 10:10:43 AM »

Men and women can't be friends if they are young ,attractive and straight

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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #11 on: December 02, 2017, 10:13:34 AM »

Men and women can't be friends if they are young ,attractive and straight

period

Not true.
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #12 on: December 02, 2017, 10:21:47 AM »

Not true.

I followed that rule in life and never regretted
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #13 on: December 02, 2017, 10:36:45 AM »

..has been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years.

Due to their work schedule they get to see each other not that often but they have clearly made it work for the past 2 years.

They live separately.

The guy has a friend, who is a woman, and they socialise in the same group of friends, they have been friends for about 5 years.

Prior to my friend getting involved with this guy...the guy and this woman friend shared a kiss. He said it never meant nothing and it was like kissing his sister.

Recently this woman broke up with her boyfriend and turned to my friends guy asking if she could stay with him until she worked her shit out.

( bare in my mind she has a vacant house up for sale and she doesn't want to move into it )

My question is:

Is it unreasonable for my friend to feel threatened by this woman moving in with her guy?

When:

1. They shared a kiss in the past..which indicates an attraction in the first place.

2. My friend and her guy don't see each other that often to seal the intimacy deal on a regular basis.

3. This woman has a vacant house up for sale, that she could move into, instead of moving in with my friends guy.

4. There is no time frame set on how long this woman is going to stay at my friends guys place.


Thoughts?

Personally, I think it looks like a midnight recipe for morning regrets..


I don't think it's unreasonable for your friend to feel uneasy about the situation; there is history between him and his female friend.  She was right to confront him. I think the test for them both (moving forward) will be trust.
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #14 on: December 02, 2017, 10:37:05 AM »

Men and women can't be friends if they are young ,attractive and straight

period

Many realize they are not each other’s type, and they CAN be friends.
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #15 on: December 02, 2017, 10:40:07 AM »

Many realize they are not each other’s type, and they CAN be friends.

Yeah well, I've heard from someone when I was young

"Girls with too many male friends are troublesome"

I've seen truth to that countless times.
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #16 on: December 02, 2017, 10:44:22 AM »

Yeah well, I've heard from someone when I was young

"Girls with too many male friends are troublesome"

I've seen truth to that countless times.

And guys with too many female friends?
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #17 on: December 02, 2017, 11:02:18 AM »

I followed that rule in life and never regretted

More a rule applicable to latinos. Never ran into trouble with making bonafide friendships with the opposite sex except with latinas. The culture and mindset is too traditional but slowly changing.
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #18 on: December 02, 2017, 11:12:00 AM »

And guys with too many female friends?

Same shit
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Re: A friend of mine..
« Reply #19 on: December 03, 2017, 04:51:12 AM »

So he backed down because she had issues of trust with him or men in general? He's almost too kind.

Nah he backed down cause he listened to what she had to say about the situation and then agreed she had brought up some good points, which he never thought to ask his female friend before agreeing for her to move in with him.

This has nothing to do with trust, as she obviously trusts him, considering they can go for a good month or two without being intimate, due to location and their work commitments, and they still have managed to make it work for 2+ years.

My friend has even said she feels bad for putting her foot down on this situation, however it needs to be said and needs to be done, cause it simply isn't right for this woman to be living with her boyfriend.

This woman is 40 years old, with a vacant house up for sale, and she has a job. There is no logical reason for her to be smooching off my friends boyfriend with wanting a place to stay rent free, using his electricity, his internet, hot water etc..when she can move into her own vacant home.


The other night my friend was on the phone to her boyfriend, and he went out on to his verandah to take the call, my friend said to him " are you whispering and outside talking to me cause " she's " there ?

He said yeh..

My friend said to him " that makes me feel like I'm the " other woman " instead of your girlfriend.

Apparently he was " shocked " by this and felt really bad that he had made my friend feel this way.

My friend then said to him, the situation is already making things uncomfortable and different between them and his friend needs to have an exit date.


The date has been set for 31st Dec for her to move out.
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